Take a deep breath
This isn’t easy. Life is probably very chaotic for you and your family.
You have lots of questions. You want to make the right decision. And you don’t know what that is. Rest assured, we’re here to help. Learn more
Does your child need help?
This is a big question. At this point, you may be unsure whether or not your child has a problem. You may think he or she is going through a phase or just experimenting. Making it more difficult, your son or daughter is telling you they don’t have a problem.
THINGS YOUR CHILD MIGHT SAY
- It’s no big deal.
- I only did it once.
- Everyone does it.
- It’s only alcohol.
- I’m in control.
- I can stop any time.
You want to believe your child so badly and give him or her the benefit of the doubt. It’s easy to start second-guessing yourself. All parents go through this.
If there’s any question at all in your mind, it makes sense to have a professional evaluate your child. You’ll get the answers you need so you and your child can get on with life.
Your child needs help
You know your child has a drug or alcohol problem. Still, taking the next step and getting your son or daughter help can be very challenging. You might fear offending your child and putting further strain on your relationship. Or you might be feeling helpless, overwhelmed or embarrassed about what others will think.
This is all normal. With everything going on, it’s easy to forget that drug and alcohol abuse affects many teenagers from every kind of family background. What’s important is that your child gets the help he or she needs.
What to expect
THINGS YOUR CHILD MIGHT SAY
- I promise I’ll stop.
- I’ll run away from home.
- It’s not going to work.
- The minute I get out of treatment, I’m going to start using again.
- I’ll never talk to you again.
- You don’t love me.
- I hate you.
Once your child knows you intend to get him or her help, he or she may do anything to get out of it, from making promises to making threats. It’s important to know this is the addiction talking. The more extensively your child is involved with the drugs or alcohol, the more resistant he or she will be. You need to remain resolute and stand by your decision. If your child downright refuses to get help, contact a trained substance abuse counselor or call us any time at (888) 9 AT LAST.
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